Hello, darling! 🌸 My name is Steve Butler — and yes, I am the blushing, mincing sissy boy who has finally outed herself as a lovely, pretty woman, and this page is an attempt to tell you why💕

This site is more than just a blog. It’s my public declaration. My gallery, my words, my photos — all of them tied to my real name — are proof that I’ve stepped beyond fantasy and into truth. This is who I am, and now the whole world can see it.

As a woman, I feel a profound sense of confidence, comfort, and completeness. Dressing as a woman is not just a choice for me; it’s a natural expression of who I am. I’m sharing this not only to connect with those who knew me as Steve Butler but also to help you understand just how much I cherish being a woman. As I continue to embrace my true self, it becomes easier to share this journey with the world. After all, it’s becoming increasingly hard to hide who I am, and I wouldn’t want it any other way!

🌸 My Feminine Awakening

From as early as I can remember, I was drawn to the delicate, pretty things meant “for girls.” The swish of a skirt, the softness of lace, the allure of lipstick and heels — they all called to me.

At first, it was in secret. Borrowed clothes, quiet experiments, moments of joy quickly hidden away. I told myself it was just a phase, just a fantasy. But each time I looked in the mirror and saw a softer, prettier version of me, I knew it wasn’t pretend. It was the truth I was too afraid to say out loud.

💄 Learning to Become Me

Makeup was my first true doorway into feminisation. I still remember the thrill of my first lipstick, the way mascara opened my eyes, the first time I blushed at my own reflection because she looked so right.

Clothes followed: dresses, skirts, lingerie, bridal gowns I had always dreamed of wearing. Each outfit wasn’t just fabric — it was affirmation. Proof that I could be feminine, elegant, and beautiful. Proof that I wasn’t just a boy who liked girly things… I was a girl at heart.

This is one of my favorite pictures. Embracing femininity has always given me an incredible sense of empowerment and freedom—there’s truly nothing like it. I have a particular love for eye makeup, and I’m always experimenting to make my eyes look as captivating as possible. On the morning this picture was taken, I’d just been to the beauty salon, where Emma worked her magic on my eyebrows. I think they turned out fabulous—there’s definitely nothing “manly” about this look!

👠 From Secret to Public

For years, I kept this part of me hidden. Friends, family, coworkers — none of them knew that inside, Steve Butler was living as a sissy, longing to be free.

But hiding hurt. Every day I played the role of a man, I felt further from the woman I truly was.

So I started small. A walk in the park in a dress. A salon visit. Trying on gowns at a bridal shop. Each step was terrifying — and yet each one filled me with confidence, joy, and the feeling that I was becoming real.

For me, being a woman is about much more than appearance—it’s about embodying qualities like kindness, compassion, and resilience. Dressing up as a woman lets me express my true self and fully embrace my femininity in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling. When I present myself as a woman, I feel a deep sense of calm and, I believe, a more genuine kindness and grace come through. Being a woman allows me to connect with the qualities that make me feel at peace with myself.

There’s something incredibly liberating about being able to express my femininity openly, to wear pretty clothes, to apply makeup, and to move through the world as a woman. If you’re like me and have a deep love for everything that being a lady represents, don’t hold back—life is too short not to be true to yourself! Getting glammed up, putting on a beautiful dress, and stepping out with confidence has become one of the purest joys in my life. When I step out in a pretty outfit with makeup done, it feels completely natural, like it’s always who I was meant to be.I sometimes look at young people today with a bit of envy; they have so many more options, resources, and acceptance than I had. If transitioning had been as accessible and supported when I was younger as it is now, I’m certain I would have chosen to embrace all aspects of womanhood much earlier in life. Perhaps I would have started transitioning as a teen, embracing each part of the journey to be who I am today.

Embracing my femininity has brought me a sense of peace, joy, and purpose. My hope is that this site inspires others to pursue their authentic selves and experience the same happiness I’ve found.

🌟 The Point of No Return

So.....finally, I did the most frightening, thrilling thing of all: I built this website. Not under a fake name, not in secret — but under my real name, Steve Butler. I filled it with photos, blogs, tips, and stories of my feminisation. And then… I asked Google to index it.

That was it. The point of no return. I outed myself publicly, forever. Anyone who searches for me may now stumble across the truth: Steve Butler is a proud tgirl, a sissy, a woman who loves femininity.

It’s deliciously frightening. It makes my heart race. And it makes me feel free in a way I never imagined. Because now, there’s no going back — and I wouldn’t want to.

💕 Why I Share

This site is for me — a diary of my outing, my joy, my girly pride. But it’s also for you.

Maybe you’re another sissy, hiding in secret. Maybe you’re a tgirl, dreaming of heels and makeup but too scared to take that first step. Maybe you’re just curious, or maybe you even know me in real life.

🌟 The Point of No Return

So.....finally, I did the most frightening, thrilling thing of all: I built this website. Not under a fake name, not in secret — but under my real name, Steve Butler. I filled it with photos, blogs, tips, and stories of my feminisation. And then… I asked Google to index it.

That was it. The point of no return. I outed myself publicly, forever. Anyone who searches for me may now stumble across the truth: Steve Butler is a proud tgirl, a sissy, a woman who loves femininity.

It’s deliciously frightening. It makes my heart race. And it makes me feel free in a way I never imagined. Because now, there’s no going back — and I wouldn’t want to.

💕 Why I Share

This site is for me — a diary of my outing, my joy, my girly pride. But it’s also for you.

Maybe you’re another sissy, hiding in secret. Maybe you’re a tgirl, dreaming of heels and makeup but too scared to take that first step. Maybe you’re just curious, or maybe you even know me in real life.

I created this site to share my love for being a woman and to express why being feminine feels so right for me. Embracing my true self has been an incredible journey, and this space is a way to celebrate that transformation. Being a woman is something I cherish deeply, and I want to share what makes it so special for me—from my passion for fashion and beauty to the elegance and warmth that come with femininity.

As I continue to grow and embrace who I am, and with guidance from some wonderful friends who I won't mention here (they know who they are) and resources, I feel more confident every day about taking that next step. 

If you’re visiting my site and feel a connection with the subject, please don’t hesitate to reach out—I’d love to hear from you. I'll help any way I can. Send me a message, and let’s see where this journey takes us. Or if you're a fellow tgirl and just want to get in touch so we can help each other...

Whoever you are, I want you to see that it’s possible. That the fear can be turned into freedom. That the shame can become pride. That someone like me — Steve Butler — can step out, be visible, and glow as the woman she always was.

✨ The Real Me

So here I am.

  • Not a fantasy.

  • Not AI.

  • Not a secret.

I am Steve Butler.
A proud tgirl.
A mincing sissy boy who became a lovely, pretty woman.
And I’m finally, permanently out.

Welcome to my world, darling. I hope you stay a while, peek through my gallery, and join me as I live my feminisation journey openly, joyfully, and without apology.

With love,
💋 Steve Butler

✨ I’ve shared bits of my journey here, but if you want to know the heart of who I am, I’ve written it all down in one place here 👉 Steve Butler's girly manifesto 
That page is my proudest declaration: Steve Butler is a girly girl, and I embrace it fully.

💖 I’d love to hear from you - if you’d like to reach out to me directly, you can email me at:

sabrina.butler@iname.com

Whether you’re another tgirl, someone inspired by my story, or even someone who knew me before I outed myself, I’d be delighted to hear from you. 🌸