💋About Steve – The Girl I Really Am

This is the site of Steve Butler’s feminisation journey — the girl who discovered her girly style, her pretty dresses, her true self

For most of my life, people only knew one version of me — the quiet, careful, masculine version I tried so hard to perform. But inside? I always felt something far softer, prettier, gentler… and much more me.

I hid that part for years.
The skirts I wanted to wear.
The makeup I dreamed of trying.
The girly feelings I carried in secret.
The longing to feel beautiful.
The truth I didn’t dare to say out loud.

That truth?
I’ve always been a feminine soul. That’s who I really am. I’m not ashamed of it anymore. I’m not hiding it anymore. I’m not pretending to be “him” anymore.

This website — Becoming a Girl — is the story of how I finally stopped denying myself and started becoming the soft, feminine, pretty girl I’ve always felt inside.

🌸 My Feminine Awakening

My journey didn’t start with a big revelation.
It started quietly — a skirt that felt too good to take off…
a touch of lipstick that made my heart flutter…
the euphoric feeling of seeing myself look girly for the first time.

Little by little, the real me began to surface.

Not the old Steve people expected…
but the softer, sweeter, more delicate self I’d been hiding.

People call it feminisation, MTF exploration, sissy awakening…
I call it becoming whole.

Because when I slip into a dress, paint my lips, and see that girly sparkle in the mirror — that’s when I feel alive.
Soft.
Feminine.
Pretty.
Me.

💄 If You Knew Me Before… This Is Who I Really Am

I know some people may land on this page because they searched for “Steve Butler.”
Maybe you knew me once — at work, in my past, in a different version of my life.

If so…
this is me now.
This is the truth I used to hide.

I’m embracing myself openly:
my femininity, my softness, my girly heart, my love of dresses and heels, my journey into womanhood, and yes — my sweet, playful, sissy side too.

This isn’t a phase or a costume.
It’s the part of me that finally feels free.

👠 From Secret to Public

For years, I kept this part of me hidden. Friends, family, coworkers — none of them knew that inside, Steve Butler was living as a sissy, longing to be free.

But hiding hurt. Every day I played the role of a man, I felt further from the woman I truly was.

So I started small. A walk in the park in a dress. A salon visit. Trying on gowns at a bridal shop. Each step was terrifying — and yet each one filled me with confidence, joy, and the feeling that I was becoming real.

For me, being a woman is about much more than appearance—it’s about embodying qualities like kindness, compassion, and resilience. Dressing up as a woman lets me express my true self and fully embrace my femininity in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling. When I present myself as a woman, I feel a deep sense of calm and, I believe, a more genuine kindness and grace come through. Being a woman allows me to connect with the qualities that make me feel at peace with myself.

There’s something incredibly liberating about being able to express my femininity openly, to wear pretty clothes, to apply makeup, and to move through the world as a woman. If you’re like me and have a deep love for everything that being a lady represents, don’t hold back—life is too short not to be true to yourself! Getting glammed up, putting on a beautiful dress, and stepping out with confidence has become one of the purest joys in my life. When I step out in a pretty outfit with makeup done, it feels completely natural, like it’s always who I was meant to be.I sometimes look at young people today with a bit of envy; they have so many more options, resources, and acceptance than I had. If transitioning had been as accessible and supported when I was younger as it is now, I’m certain I would have chosen to embrace all aspects of womanhood much earlier in life. Perhaps I would have started transitioning as a teen, embracing each part of the journey to be who I am today.

Embracing my femininity has brought me a sense of peace, joy, and purpose. My hope is that this site inspires others to pursue their authentic selves and experience the same happiness I’ve found.

🌸 Why I Share This

I created this site for three reasons:

1. To live openly as the feminine girl I truly am.

No more hiding. No more shame.
Just honesty, beauty, softness, and freedom.

2. To let the world — including old friends — see my real self.

If you found this while searching my name…
then welcome.
Now you’re meeting the real me.

3. To reach others like me.

Maybe you’re another sissy girl, a Tgirl, a crossdresser, or someone quietly dreaming of slipping into her first dress.
I see you.
I was you.
And you’re not alone.

🌟 The Point of No Return

Then I did the one thing I always feared: I used my real name. I published this site. I asked Google to index it. I went public. Steve Butler is now a proud girly girl. That was the point of no return — and I’m so glad I didn’t look back.

🌸 Join Me on My Journey

If you want to follow my transformation — my outfits, makeup, girly adventures, and honest reflections — you’ll find everything here:

I’m Steve Butler - a soft, feminine, pretty girl embracing her truth.
And I’m finally ready to let the world see me.

With love,
💋 Steve Butler

✨ I’ve shared bits of my journey here, but if you want to know the heart of who I am, I’ve written it all down in one place here 👉 Steve Butler's girly manifesto 
That page is my proudest declaration: Steve Butler is a girly girl, and I embrace it fully.

💖 I’d love to hear from you - if you’d like to reach out to me directly, you can email me at:

sabrina.butler@iname.com

Whether you’re another tgirl, someone inspired by my story, or even someone who knew me before I outed myself, I’d be delighted to hear from you. 🌸